FOOD FOR THOUGHT
Mark R. Vogel
Epicure1@optonline.net
Go With Your Gut
What guides your decision making process when you peruse the
dizzying array of options on a typical restaurant menu? Of course the immediate
discriminator is whether you enjoy a particular food or not. But after
eliminating the things that you dislike, how do you then choose amongst the
acceptable offerings?
I imagine price is sometimes a factor. If you’re near the end
of the paycheck cycle you might opt for the $15 chicken over the $25 rack of
lamb. Or maybe it just irks you to spend $40 on a two-pound lobster when you can
make it at home for less than $10 a pound.
But let’s put money aside for the moment. Next are a plethora
of health related factors that may come into play, be they real or imagined.
Some people must avoid certain foods for medical reasons. Others are watching
their waistline. And some folks have all sorts of kooky ideas about certain
foods and health. Don’t get me started on this last point. I’ve belabored it to
death in the past already. Let’s just put the food neurotics in with the “health
reasons group” and move on.
A lot of people like to order items that they can’t make at
home, either because they don’t know how or because the dish is complicated and
time consuming. Thus, ordering it out is a treat. Conversely, one may have a
great recipe for, let’s say lasagna, and never order it in a restaurant because
they like their own preparation the best. Of course what you’ve eaten recently
also plays a role. The need to avoid the drudgery of the mundane prevents us
from revisiting recently consumed foods.
As we continue, we encounter reasons for choosing food that
are practiced by many, but only on certain occasions. For example, people often
avoid messy foods or foods requiring the use of the hands on a first date. A
more refined impression is conveyed by cutting a chicken cutlet with a knife and
fork as opposed to barbarically digging into greasy fried chicken with your
paws. Or a dish may be chosen because it’s traditional fare on a popular
holiday: corn beef and cabbage on St. Patrick’s Day or turkey on Thanksgiving.
Next are multifarious idiosyncratic reasons for choosing or
eschewing certain foods. These are the quirky motivations distinctive to the
individual and inevitably arising from some unique set of circumstances in their
background. A friend of mine eats fish but won’t order it if the word “fish” is
in the description on the menu. For some reason that grosses her out. Another
friend cannot eat a food if it is presented in its normal anatomical form. Thus,
she is repulsed by a chicken leg, but not by a deboned, unidentifiably uniform
piece of chicken breast devoid of any distinctive chicken shape. And then of
course, are the people who avoid certain foods because they have a moral problem
with their cultivation or slaughter. Personally I think that has more to do with
the funny-farm than a traditional farm but to each his own.
But after we remove all of these extraneous influences, what
then determines which food we will choose? I mean, on an entire restaurant menu,
there has to be more than one dish that meets your medical, financial,
socio-cultural, and psychological variables. Don’t we usually narrow it down to
a few options and then make a final decision from there? Of course. And it’s
that final determination that I wish to address.
The bottom line is, after all is said and done, we go with
our gut. We make that final selection based upon how we feel. Do I feel like
seafood today or pasta? Am I in a burger mood? Nah, I feel like something
lighter. Someone please tell me how it feels to “feel” like having lobster? How
do you put that into words? We all know the sensation of being drawn to one food
over another but how in the world do you articulate that? What exactly is a
burger mood? You could probably describe love, anger or sadness more readily
than you could elucidate a sushi feeling.
I find this process fascinating. As we contemplate our final
menu possibilities, we look inward, we imagine eating one or the other, and then
somehow, seemingly magically, we are propelled toward one by some unseen yet
irresistible force; an intangible, free-flowing, emotionally based sentiment
that steers our receptivity toward a discrete taste sensation. We simply just
feel like something spicy today.
It is my position that it behooves us to go with our gut,
even though our feelings are sometimes wrong. Ever order something, take a
sample of one of your dining partner’s meals and then wish you ordered that?
Nevertheless, following our innate inclinations is usually psychologically
sound. Being true to ourselves, as opposed to being directed by external
factors, is a surer way toward happiness. Can I prove that? No more than I can
define a hot dog feeling. But my gut tells me it’s right.
